OK, spin it all you like, but it doesn't look good when Scotland was the only part which got the total opposite to what it voted for and it won't be easy to defend in the upcoming campaign for independence. Especially as the tories will be the ones who made these choices and will be The ones defending them. Itll be even harder If we end up with a "No" figurehead aligned with another party trying desperately to defend tory policy.
To my mind, this seems to show a complete misunderstanding of how democracy works. The way it works is that you take a vote, and whichever side gets the most votes, that's the decision you go with. Scotland has (if I recall correctly) about 8% of the population of the UK and therefore gets to contribute 8% towards UK-wide votes. That means that Scotland/Scottish MPs get an 8% say in many things that impact the other 92% of UK residents, in return for those residents getting a say on some things that - by virtue of being UK-wide, impact Scotland. If Scottish MPs are outvoted by others, it doesn't mean that they are being unfairly ignored (any more than it means that - say - Greenwich - is being unfairly ignored if Greenwich's three MPs are on the losing side in a Westminster vote): It simply means that they were in a minority.
If Scotland gets independence, and gets an SNP Government, or an SNP-Green coalition wielding absolute power, then what should those areas of Scotland that didn't vote SNP or for independence do? (For example, the Scottish Borders areas which consistently tend to vote Tory). Can they rightfully claim that they have an SNP Government imposed on them that they didn't vote for and that therefore they should get independence from the rest of Scotland? That is after all the logic of your/the SNP's arguments about being somehow ignored. Hopefully it's obvious that if you go all the way down that route, you end up with unworkable anarchy.
If you want independence because you somehow feel that that's where your emotional attachment lies or because you feel that people's lives would be better with an independent Scotland, than that's fair enough. It's a legitimate position to hold. But this continual stuff about being somehow ignored or mismanaged is - frankly - misleading rubbish/SNP propaganda.