One aspect I would like add to the question of „Swiss or dutch-style“ is rail‘s competitive position vs the private car.
On a 30-minute base interval after all, if you include a 5 minute minimum connecting time (which needs infrastructure precautions by itself), in a Dutch-style system, your connecting time will range between 5 and 35 minutes, ie 20 minutes on average.
In a place like Switzerland, and indeed Austria, where rail services are generally slow and car trips rather fast - because road congestion is often not that much of an issue - having an average connection time of 20 minutes - or a multiple thereof if you have to change more than once - will significantly reduce rail‘s competitiveness.
While I am not an expert on Dutch road traffic in the slightest, I imagine that the equation, due to slow roads in the central parts of the country, will be very different. It certainly will be in most of England, where in addition intercity rail is - sometimes very - fast.
The Netherlands has fast roads and they are not shy about building motorways. For suburb to suburb traffic road can be competitive. However, their towns and cities are designed where walking and cycling are at the top of the pyramid and driving right in is discouraged and indeed difficult. Given the highly urbanised nature of the country, a lot of trips will have at least one trip end in such 'car hostile' environments, so the railway has a captive market. Britain has a very similar urban density to the Netherlands and the towns and cities are generally going the right way in becoming less car centric (still much work to do).
Train speed wise, the Netherlands' ruling 140km/h and Britain's 80-100mph (outside of the inter-city main lines) are similar.
The major Dutch nodes have combined frequencies of 4tph on most arms, and only a minority of passengers change between specific half-hourly services. In Switzerland stations only need to be a bit big for interchanges to become 20 minutes (xx50 arrival for xx10 departure). I suspect, when you look at actual interchanges being made the average interchange time in the Netherlands won't be that much different to that in the Switzerland. This is again where the UK is far more similar to the Netherlands than it is to Switzerland.
Take Derby for example, it has 4tph to Nottingham, 4tph to Birmingham and 4tph to Sheffield. It really doesn't matter which part of the hour any of these services run (as long as they are regular and symmetrical). It also doesn't matter which part of the hour the Matlock or Crewe services run (you would connect them with each other if possible, but relatively few passengers would connect between these services).