Anyone who has the mindset of "Don't worry, you're supposed to fail First Year, it's all about bedding you into the experience" wouldn't last five minutes in the workplace.
If anyone wants a little story, during my first two months at Uni, so before I joined this forum, I lived with three other people in a small flat five minutes from Bath Spa station which had an
excellent view of the GWML. However, two of these three were replacements for another two who had dropped out (based on the fact that the other person also liked trains, I assume that was the initial thing that put us together), and arrived the day Uni started. Within literally one hour, they were in the other guy's room, using something that begins with "M", ends in "A", sounds distinctly Spanish, and is more often than not given its colloquial name which rhymes with "deed". They then proceeded to sleep with quite a few girls at Uni, never attended lessons, and in all honesty should never have left home because they weren't ready. It got even worse when I told them I was leaving to move on campus; they tried to steal my TV! Finally, come the January, they were expelled. The other guy also left, but he has returned.
How different to me is that? The Uni made a grave mistake there, and even I have lost count of the number of apologies and attempts to hearten me I've had...
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Question: If we made a poll for 10,000 students as to their real reason for attending, how many would say they were "attending" for other alcohol/substance purposes or for sleeping around...?
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That post was a bit slow wasn't it?

hock: Almost 15 have been since the one I wanted to reply to...