RJ
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So I travelled again recently. The price on the ticket I had was shown as £0.00 as it was actually an excess to replace a ticket that had been withdrawn by an East Midlands Trains RPO some miles away. This in itself caused untold problems as I was essentially travelling across the country with an excess ticket endorsed with "Valid only with ticket [original ticket number]" but of course that had been withdrawn. This is why railway staff should be following the book to the letter when carrying out revenue protection procedures, but that's going on a hiding to nowhere.
At Crewe, I boarded a train towards Shrewsbury and the guard came along. After I had to go through the full explanation of why I didn't have the original ticket, he was adamant the only permitted route is the most direct one and shook his head dismissively when I mentioned the National Routeing Guide. He was of the opinion that I was off route. Fine, not unanticipated, I've gotten used to this by now. He said that he didn't want to see me travelling on his train again with a ticket that was not by the most direct route but indicated that he would pass the ticket, to which I simply said "thank you." I never, ever argue when a member of staff agrees to pass a ticket, regardless of the reason for why they are doing so or who is right/wrong in principle. I will always do my utmost to avoid conflict.
What happened next took me by surprise. He was holding my ticket and began looking at me for an inordinate period of time. I always look directly at people when conversing and for the first few seconds he was looking at me, I was trying not to crack a smile. As the seconds ticked by I realised he was being serious and the more I thought about it, the more I was wondering why the man was looking at me like that.
The man was staring at me for a good 20 seconds and I was looking squarely back at him. Eventually, he held up the ticket and said "I'll stamp it, but I don't want to see you on this line again" I said "thank you, I appreciate it" in as sincere a manner as possible and held my hand up to take the ticket. As I did so, he forcibly shoved the ticket into my hand which I felt was completely unnecessary, then started the staring thing again. This lasted for a good 25-30 seconds until he decided to walk away.
The look on his face was as if he was saying "I've dealt with your sort before and if you say a word, I'll sort you out/put you off the train/get the police." The way I see it, I don't like to give these people anything negative to say about me so I let it go without saying anything. In London where I'm from, people simply don't do that sort of thing unless they're specifically trying to antagonise the other person. Maybe culture is different on the Marches and it means something else.
What do people think of this? Obviously it's not illegal to look at someone for protracted periods of time or display a bad attitude when passing a ticket, but I'd like to think that there are more graceful ways a member of staff can interact with a passenger. Would anyone have said anything to him if in my shoes?
At Crewe, I boarded a train towards Shrewsbury and the guard came along. After I had to go through the full explanation of why I didn't have the original ticket, he was adamant the only permitted route is the most direct one and shook his head dismissively when I mentioned the National Routeing Guide. He was of the opinion that I was off route. Fine, not unanticipated, I've gotten used to this by now. He said that he didn't want to see me travelling on his train again with a ticket that was not by the most direct route but indicated that he would pass the ticket, to which I simply said "thank you." I never, ever argue when a member of staff agrees to pass a ticket, regardless of the reason for why they are doing so or who is right/wrong in principle. I will always do my utmost to avoid conflict.
What happened next took me by surprise. He was holding my ticket and began looking at me for an inordinate period of time. I always look directly at people when conversing and for the first few seconds he was looking at me, I was trying not to crack a smile. As the seconds ticked by I realised he was being serious and the more I thought about it, the more I was wondering why the man was looking at me like that.
The man was staring at me for a good 20 seconds and I was looking squarely back at him. Eventually, he held up the ticket and said "I'll stamp it, but I don't want to see you on this line again" I said "thank you, I appreciate it" in as sincere a manner as possible and held my hand up to take the ticket. As I did so, he forcibly shoved the ticket into my hand which I felt was completely unnecessary, then started the staring thing again. This lasted for a good 25-30 seconds until he decided to walk away.
The look on his face was as if he was saying "I've dealt with your sort before and if you say a word, I'll sort you out/put you off the train/get the police." The way I see it, I don't like to give these people anything negative to say about me so I let it go without saying anything. In London where I'm from, people simply don't do that sort of thing unless they're specifically trying to antagonise the other person. Maybe culture is different on the Marches and it means something else.
What do people think of this? Obviously it's not illegal to look at someone for protracted periods of time or display a bad attitude when passing a ticket, but I'd like to think that there are more graceful ways a member of staff can interact with a passenger. Would anyone have said anything to him if in my shoes?
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