Conversely having the fasts in the middle makes it easier to build stations which serve only the slow lines, like Raynes Park or Berrylands. Cf Welham Green etc on the GN.
New Malden where I grew up actually does have centre platforms to serve the fast lines, but even 60 years ago only very occasional trains stopped there and AFAIK they have been disused for many years. The spacing of the tracks means that the bridge over the main road there is in fact two separate bridges which were renewed about a month apart.
ETA it also makes the burrowing junction for the Kingston branch (cf Stevenage) much easier than if one of the slows had to come up in the middle of the layout. But I also remember a discussion on here somewhere which says the original arrangement was not the same as it is now, which explains why there is an unused bore at the Elm Road underbridge.
Indeed. paired by direction also makes it easier for trains to switch between fast and slow, as happens for example with trains which are first stop Surbiton, then all stations.
There are several burrowing and flying junctions - for the Epsom, Kingston, Hampton Court, Cobham New Line, Addlestone (west facing) Alton and Salisbury lines.
Indeed the only flat junction - with a regular passenger service on the branch - on the four track section between Waterloo and Worting Junction is at Woking. (Wimbledon and Weybridge have flat junctions, but no regular passenger services use them)
The curious arrangement at New Malden is because when the line was extended to New Malden from the original terminus at Kingston in 1869, both tracks passed under the main line and ran on the south side of the main line (ie paired by use) to Wimbledon, continuing to Tooting and ultimately Holborn Viaduct, as a joint operation with the LOndon Chatham & Dover Railway. The main line was quadrupled in 1884, and the present configuration of the junction dates from then.
A similar arrangment of redundant underpasses can be seen west of Turnham Green (best seen from trains to and from Richmond) where the former LSWR tracks from Richmond burrowed under the original District Railway's line to Ealing. This arrangment was built in 1911, when the line between there and Hammersmith was quadrupled, and again reconfigured when the Ealing line was quadrupled in the 1930s and the layout betweeen Turnham Green and Hammersmith converted from paired by use to paired by direction. (This also explains why Stamford Brook has only three platforms, with the eastbound District much newer than the other two)