I haven't said that you do. But many folk certainly do seem to.
As for comparisons to Avanti, I have not yet had any opportunity to compare. But given that my main metric is that the train runs to time, I would say that they are about par. Likewise, the trains themselves are still the same and offer the same standards of accommodation.
I've had a small chance to compare the two operators, and I would say Virgin were the more reliable of the two TOC. In the 6 or so times I've used the WCML, at least 4 of those were with Virgin. All ran to time, with no issues to report whatsoever. My last two experiences with Avanti however have been incredibly poor, only really made up by the much improved (and DfT imposed) delay repay scheme. The first one involved travelling back from Glasgow to Euston, where we were told on the approach to Preston that, due to disruption earlier in the day on the southern end of the WCML, that our service would be terminated here and that our tickets would be accepted on the next service southbound (itself Cancelled). Over an hour and a bit later I had the choice of a Euston via Birmingham service or a direct Euston service 15 minutes later - which, as that arrived ahead of the via Birmingham service I took. No visible staff onboard and First Class had become a free for all (which made buying a FC ticket rather pointless). The second journey with them encountered delays, but at least the communication was better this time. But, still not a patch on the previous operator.
I too didn't buy into the Virgin PR Machine, it was sickly, but not as sickly or as cringeworthy as the Avanti "Let's pretend were the same as Virgin" PR Machine. And I still find it odd, living here in the South, that my television is often bombarded with Avanti's advert during the ad breaks.
The only crumb I can see so far is the refurbishment of their Voyager fleet. But why oh why, did they come up with a smart moquette and interior design, only to ignore it and replace it with the sickly colours (from the photos we've seen on here at least) in the full fat Pendolino refurbishment.
As for SWR - Whoever came up with that livery design ought to be relieved of their MacBook. SWT felt bright, they felt colourful, they felt warming, and the tri-colour fleet was a smart idea. First have done the same on GWR, in creating a unified brand and a uniform fleet, they've become utterly bland. The flat cloth used on the seats is not wearing well - I can provide recent examples if people want - and the monochrome colour scheme is depressing, only made slightly better by the bright oranges left on the inside of the Desiro's, or the simplified exterior where the silly vinyl stripes have been dropped. Again, I'll give them a small crumb in that they have improved the onboard cleanliness, but that really is about it - externally the fleet is often dirty and, particularly on the 159s with their white roofs, at times this winter has looked awful. I've been using SWR a lot less over the last few years (mostly for leisure purposes these days) but, when we do actually have a service, it's been average. The ridiculously savage covid timetable cut backs have left a sour note for a lot of people too - journeys like a relatively short hop from Basingstoke to Winchester for example, which used to be at least every 15 minutes with both SWR/T and XC, have become hourly (now a little more frequents thankfully, but it's not perfect!).
I can only guess that the near revolving door of the MD situation hasn't helped either, having gone from Andy Mellors to Mark Hopwood (briefly) to Claire Mann in the relatively short space of the franchise already.