Not sure I see how 30-year-old electric stock is unacceptable for London commuter routes, but 35 to 40 year old diesel stock is fine for Leeds and Manchester.
My understanding is that electric stock is generally viable to be kept in service for longer anyway as there isn't an engine effectively vibrating the thing to pieces, plus with diesel there are emissions standards worry about, with electric that of course isn't an issue.
This is more a financing question than physical condition.
Prior to pandemic (was it really 2 years ago this week, first lockdown imposed) London commuting was seen as strong and this allowed 2 massive new electric fleets to be easily financed (Anglia class 720 and 745, and South West class 701)
To best of my knowledge, no one up North has ever offered to introduce 700+ vehicles, and therefore will not be as attractive to a financing company as someone wanting a few dozen vehicles. It takes about the same amount of legal, administrative, contract negotiations etc regardless of size of fleet.
It seemed as though the financing returns on the jumbo sized fleets caused a step change in the economics, where standardisation and energy efficiency and attractiveness killed off any alternatives of refurbishing, patching up, updating older trains.
Of course a logical outcome is the 30 year old cast offs could have been used to replace the older trains for another decade, what used to be known as cascading. But there is a lack of suitable electrified lines for them to be used (and could argue a lack of joined up thinking in fragmented privatised railway), so have got silly situation where mid 1980s 15x diesel units are staying longer than previous DMU generation did.
But this is not 100% new, the 1987 asbestos deadline resulted in newer trains departing before older ones. If you intend to keep a 25-30 year old train in service for another 10-15 years, you need to spend serious money upgrading (which is a capital investmen), if you have a 35+ year old train you just patch it up (which is charged to routine maintenance) knowing it will probably get replaced in few years.