I don't normally have any desire to have the final word on a forum debate for very good reasons but I will make an exception for once. I think most of the things that are useful has already been said so I will try and only add what has not already been covered.
IT'S NOTHING TO DO WITH DOCUMENTATION!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE READ MY POSTS!!!!!!
I am literally going blue in the face.
Shouting gives no additional weight to your argument, and I think this just proves what many people had said earlier. All this will do is confirm the inclination some forum members in this thread already have about you.
Yes but I wasn't expecting all of this nonsense!
There is a CLEAR difference between views, which, like Welshbluebird and radamfi have stated, which are perfectly valid, then there's people judging me.
So people who do not agree with you do not have a valid opinion, or should it be better expressed as "these are not what I want to hear so I refuse to admit any merit they might have"?
If you don't want to be judged by what you write, the simple rule is "don't use any online forum", because that is what happens in real life. Greenback had earlier explained to you that because facial expressions, voices and hand gestures are non-existent, that is the only thing you will be judged on. I don't believe in all that malarky about not judging people, because in real life, we all judge people in every minute of our lives from whatever available information there is. This is life. As long as no prejudice flows from it (or as little as possible), it is fine by me.
People not agreeing with you does not mean that your ideas had no merit, but there is a right way and a wrong way to go about it. I don't think anyone in this thread has disagreed with you that things can be improved. It is only on how it can be improved and what is realistic that opinions vary. This problem falls firmly into the category of "no clear right answer". Implying that those opinions that do not agree with yours are not valid gives off the petulant image that had probably formed in some people's minds. I am sure that it is not how you meant for things to come across, but written words convey meanings by the way they are put down and unfortunately many of yours sent out all the wrong signals in this thread.
Which is fair enough but I have personally told everyone on this thread what my intentions were but there are some forum members who are still not listening to me, so I'm actually past the point of caring now.
NOW I am angry and agitated because I've had to repeat myself several times to people in this thread, not you personally Greenback, but others anyway.
The same argument can be reversed. Perhaps you found yourself repeating the same things because you refused to listen to what other people had to say?
People heard you, and some of them do not agree entirely with you. That is life. Trying to force your opinion down other people's throat is not how grown-ups deal with differences.
Just for the record about me asking for opinions, the following quotes are all useful and constructive comments:
This is what I thought, although with the rebuild I'd hope that a faster, non-delaying queueing system would be considered.
I am all for RPIs doing their job successfully and catching those fare evaders, but if there was a better system then both parties would benefit.
Simple as really. I've said all I need to say on the matter now.
Thanks to those quoted above with their
constructive feedback
This is exactly the sort of posts that do you absolutely no favours. You don't like what other people have to say, therefore you throw up a temper tantrum rather than deal with things in a calm and mature way. There is a hidden meaning to this post and everyone can see it.
Do you now understand why some people form the opinion that you are an angry, and possibly arrogant (although personally I think "immature" would be a more appropriate description), young man? It may not be how you wanted to come across and I am sure this is nothing like you in real life, but that is how you have appeared to many people in this thread.
At the end of the day, there will be lots of things in the world that do not pan out in the way we would prefer, but that is called "life". It is not perfect. I think two parts in particular in Post
118 by Llanigraham offer some excellent advice on life skills, and you will do well to remember them if these are the only things you take away from this saga.
Sorry, but your replies come over in 2 ways, one as slightly arrogant, especialy the red bit above, and secondly as a young man who hasn't yet realised that life isn't fair and sometimes it doesn't and won't go the way you want it to. As you get older hopefully you will realise that. If you don't life will be very hard.
At 60odd I really wasn't bothered, and as you will quickly realise life is far to short to worrry about the small delays you suffer.
Remember, life is a bitch sometimes. The only thing you can control is how you handle it.
(Re-read what I said in Post
66 and
100. Looking at your subsequent responses, I don't think you really understood what I meant.)
I think this concludes this thread.