Funnily enough not the issue yesterday given they were 'crowding' empty bays of 4.People's ideas about what constitutes personal space are different. You tend to also have a much greater tolerance of people invading 'your' personal space if you have spent significant time living in a crowded city. There is considerable research supporting it.
I would not do this, but many people could genuinely not comprehend why you would think it is wrong.
This morning Mrs R accompanied me on my trip to t'smoke and as we took up the 4 she did smile knowingly as a parrot slid in behind me despite the empty toastrack further back (yes, even on a Thursday).
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True, decoys could be very useful! I too play dice in peacetime, unless expecting a massive imminent invasion in which case I'll hide in a corner... once backfired as I inadvertently came across as not only a clumper but a potential laptop snooper ( I blame matey's overadherencre to his company IT policy, I don't give a, I have my own stuff to plough through. Nevertheless, the embarrassment, I was mortified.)Possibly related, but people do seem to like to clump up when choosing seats.
I'll act like the dots on a die and try and be as far apart as possible from others, but there is always someone, usually obnoxious, who just has to sit behind you. I totally agree it's unnerving. Does the seat behind the table have particularly good window alignment?
It drives me mad. I sometimes wish I had a decoy I could put on the other end so people clumped over there leaving me in peace.
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