West Hampstead - you'd have to have a station on the other side also (think Shibuya high level platforms!) - and choose between Met or Chiltern. Jubilee where it is - the island platform is admittedly very wide though. But busy!
The junction at Northolt Park is already grade separated to push Marylebone services onto outers (stoppers) and OOC services up the fasts. What we'd need is quadding to go on further, ideally until Gerrards Cross at least.
But it's a fair point overall - the Sudburys, Ruislip, Chesham, all these places are pretty quiet overall. The potential isn't huge, and house-building isn't booming. Where it is booming on the route, is Wembley, High Wycombe and Bicester, plus Aylesbury. And OOC of course / North Acton. Those are the growth areas.
I would typically agree but Stratford is/was the busiest service in the country, and a hub of its own. The West Anglia routes that terminate there are packed, and people walk to wherever, or disperse in all directions. This was not the case 15 years ago, but it was so even before Crossrail.
I would think OOC would be a similar situation - not any old suburban terminus but a new hub , and yes the majority onto Crossrail into town (note that employment is not universally walkable from everywhere - Marylebone being a strong example of onward need!) - but also the other way to Ealing and Heathrow, GWML, hopefully Overground etc.