A lot of people here that are worse off than me, clearly! I am fortunate that my commute is (currently) less than 15 minutes walk each way, and that's if I'm taking my time. The average is just over 11 minutes, and even if I wanted to use public transport for the less than 1 mile route, it would mean one bus into the city centre, a short walk off certain routes, another bus then a longer walk involving many crossings around a major roundabout. By foot, it's just two easy road crossings and a far more direct route. So those people who have to rely on buses and trains, I feel for you
I have been using buses a lot this year, sometimes because it is simply easier and/or cheaper than the railway but also because the railway to some places I've been to has been long closed. When I have been on longer journeys, especially those with family who just don't understand the complexities of the railway, I do sometimes wonder why I don't just get a driving licence and all that.
Once upon a time you'd never catch me wanting to go driving instead of taking the train, but with the way things are on the railway the scales are tipping in favour of driving even for the long journey to the Scottish Highlands. Not having to share my space with someone of dubious/suspect conditions (I'm not sure how else I can politely put that), for example, is getting seriously appealing. I don't particularly like the concept of having to be 'switched on' all the way with driving, compared to the option of sitting back and plugging in my earphones on the train, but when the railway is not reliable enough to travel on then it's getting to that point where driving is not just sensible it's practically mandatory.
It's a very sad sign of the times, but it is what it is. Something tells me it's time to get it sorted, and while I'd love to learn in an electric car I might have to put that aside and get the licence in a petrol car. I genuinely didn't ever think, in the mid 2000s, that I'd ever be in this situation! In terms of pure enjoyment, the railway has gone downhill, but I do like that it's a lot cleaner and much more accessible than it used to be.
With all of the above said, will I give up all trains? No. Even when I get the pink piece of plastic from the DVLA, there will be times when it is simply only logical to choose the train. Metro areas, London for example, would find me wanting to use the train/tram/whatever. Similar for Manchester, there's no way I'd drive into central Manchester as it's bad enough trying to navigate the place on a cycle let alone in a car, but I'd drive to somewhere convenient on Metrolink like Sale Water Park and use the trams from there. For a leisure holiday, with luggage, cycles etc, then I'd be using the pink piece of plastic to allow me onto the roads.