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westcoaster

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ok i give one person me e-mail adress and this person then hands it over to other ppl willy nilly, now i dont normally give a toot, but when i get lots of weirdo's keep asking me question it gets annoying, so to this person who is a member on here please stop it

has anyone else had the same experience, or simular happen to them then feel free to post here.
 
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Is this really the place to start with things like this?
Just block them.
I get plenty of randomers adding me, as my msn is on my profile, and also some people on here add you in to group conversations and that, but it's not really a problem.
Get over it.
 

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Yes, not on here I hasten to add. It is annoying when little neds (chavs) take your e-mail address, pass it around, and you get loads of friend requests to say no to everytime you start up whatever program.

I do screen these people out, as they almost all have cfc, 1888 or weeman in the e-mail addresses, but most random people are welcome. I delete most of them if they don't talk, but I have had some interesting conversations with people I don't know.
 

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Yes, not on here I hasten to add. It is annoying when little neds (chavs) take your e-mail address, pass it around, and you get loads of friend requests to say no to everytime you start up whatever program.

I do screen these people out, as they almost all have cfc, 1888 or weeman in the e-mail addresses, but most random people are welcome. I delete most of them if they don't talk, but I have had some interesting conversations with people I don't know.

How true. There is often a lot of paranoia about this. I receive a lot of unwanted calls, texts and e-mails in my business. They are all told unsolicited approaches will NOT be accepted. If they persist, as many do, they get told where to go in very Anglo-Saxon language-they had been warned.

With a forum, where the whole point is 'the exchange of views and opinions', the situation is somewhat different.

If you disagree with a viewpoint, do say so. If the response reduces the exchange to a personal level, ignore it.

Some unfortunately rise to the 'bait', and finish up getting banned themselves. Where does THAT get you?

Others harbour some kind of 'grudge', perceived or otherwise. The simple way is to PM the person concerned and try and settle the matter rationally. ONLY if this fails, block the person and THEN ignore him/her.

Some unfortunately move to this stage WITHOUT trying to resolve the problem!
 

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ONLY if this fails, block the person and THEN ignore him/her.

Some unfortunately move to this stage WITHOUT trying to resolve the problem!

Surely ignore/blocking someone is better than starting a full scale war? I've blocked lots of people purely because I don't want to talk to them right now.
 

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Surely ignore/blocking someone is better than starting a full scale war? I've blocked lots of people purely because I don't want to talk to them right now.

It's only a short term expediant, and should only be used if resolution fails. By blocking someone without explanation TO THEM concerning the REASON for it, all you do is generate resentment.

There is, of course, no guarantee that discussion WILL resolve the matter, but unless you try, you will never know. The higher moral ground is always a good spot to operate from anyway. Photography is good from up here too! :)
 

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It's only a short term expediant, and should only be used if resolution fails. By blocking someone without explanation TO THEM concerning the REASON for it, all you do is generate resentment.

Well I take the opinion that the likelihood I'll ever meet any of these people is slim, so it doesn't really matter what I do. Likewise if someone blocks me, I don't really care. There's plenty of other people to talk to, plus most people's blocks only last for about 5 seconds.

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ok i give one person me e-mail adress and this person then hands it over to other ppl willy nilly, now i dont normally give a toot, but when i get lots of weirdo's keep asking me question it gets annoying, so to this person who is a member on here please stop it

has anyone else had the same experience, or simular happen to them then feel free to post here.

YES especially asking for things they shouldn't know or shouldn't have. Warning you will get ALL of them adding you and asking....
 

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I've only removed mine because the EMail address got too much spam,
and this site was the only place which it was listed.
 

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I find that Google Mail weeds out spam very well. :)

I registered an address with Gmail, and logged in for the first time 2 weeks later, and I had 70 odd viagra sales emails in the spambox :shock:
 

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I registered an address with Gmail, and logged in for the first time 2 weeks later, and I had 70 odd viagra sales emails in the spambox :shock:

Surely if its in the spambox then google's doing its job?

I can't see your point..

Anyway, I agree, gmail is the best.
 

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I registered an address with Gmail, and logged in for the first time 2 weeks later, and I had 70 odd viagra sales emails in the spambox :shock:

I had an old account based on the computer, and it got (and still gets) loads of spam. I don't use it anymore because it's a nightmare to sift through. I have a spam blocker, so key words like viagra don't even get seen by me, which can be a blessing or a curse.

Instead, though, I get "vai123gra", "v1a9ra" and even "Be Geneva Jacobite Trigonometry".
 

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I've got someone using my domain to send out spam EMails supposedly coming from my domain, hence I get loads of bounced messages from postmasters. I've had to create filters to stop messages from names such as "postmaster" or messages with subjects such as "undelivered mail." Very annoying.

Gmail spam box works very well, but I was fed up with it always being full, so that's why I changed my address.
 

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Surely if its in the spambox then google's doing its job?

I can't see your point..

The point is that I registered the account, and hadn't used it or given out the address, yet it still managed to get spam.
 
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They just try random addresses - my main account had relatively no spam until 1 recently got through ... and a lot lot more since.
 
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