Absolutely! (But substitute "make" for "male", I think!)
Bloody phones!
But yes, all the power sits with males too.
From the arguments that have been put forward in the public debate (which, along with our own thoughts and reading, seems to be all we have to go on -- there has been no local canvassing or leafleting so far), it is very hard to decide how to vote. In my case, heart strongly says remain, but head isn't really sure. The EU isn't a very attractive set-up as it is, but it's the best we've got, and far better than the sort of Little England Living in the Past that the Brexiters seem to want to offer us. I think that for me this is going to be one of those cases where heart wins out.
Yes, in the absence of any vision for what post-brexit would look like I can't vote for it. There's then the whole heart thing, are you an optimist that has a view of a better future and hope to make it happen, or are you a pessimist that wants to go hide under a rock?
It seems these are the key areas, and some facts I think apply.
Immigration
* There will be no reduction in the threat of terrorism to the UK, perhaps an increase from a lack of intelligence sharing
* There will be no reduction in illegal immigrants attempting to get to the UK via lorry or boat, perhaps an increase if France decides they won't want the hastle or bother of patroling the Calais area, and cancels the agreement to have the UK border in France, so the problem crops up in Folkstone rather than Calais.
* EU migrants contribute far more in tax receipts than they take
* There could theoretically be a reduction in EU, if we don't have to take free movement like Norway
* UK population growth consists of Natural Growth, EU migrant growth, and non-EU migrant growth. These 3 areas are about equal, so population will still be growing even if we leave the EU, by about 0.3% per year rather than 0.4% per year.
* There has been insufficient house buildings since the 1980s, social housing has been sold off, nothing has replaced it. The average house is now 10 times the average income.
* The number of refugees per head in the UK is far lower than that of Norway
* Since 2001 London's population has increased by 22%. The UK's population as a whole has increased by 10%, and that's a big problem for London and the south east. Successive governments have done little to iron this imbalance in the UKs economy
* Illegal workers from Eastern Europe existed in London pre-2005. Illegal mexican workers are the cornerstone of the US economy. Small businesses like illegal workers as they can pay cash in hand (thus cheaper), and the workers have no rights.
Turkey
* Turkey will only be able to become a member of the EU if the UK, Greece, and Cyprus (currently under military occupation by Turkey) agree to it
* Boris Johnson and Douglas Carswell are big fans of Turkey.
Trade
* The EU is an essential trading partner, we won't get a better deal with them than we do now
* The US is making more and more noises about moving a protectionist route
* China has been dumping steel, and getting into bed with them is a recipe for disaster
The NHS
* The UK population is getting older, living longer, and spending longer in expensive end-of-life healthcare
* There is no political will to take old people to pay for their care (high inheritance tax for example)
* This means the NHS budget per person needs to increase, meaning we need more tax payers
* The current government is against the NHS.
* Public healthcare of some sort is common across europe, although admittedly not to the same extent
TTIP
* TTIP is a trade agreement between the US and the EU
* The agreement will have to be passed by the EU government representitives (the council) and the EU population representitives (the parliament). Some nations (like France) also have laws saying their parliaments need to ratify it. The UK decided not to bother with this, but that's a UK measure.
* In common with the rest of the world, the US is moving towards a more protectionist and more nationalist view. Donald Trump and Bernie Sanders are against TTIP (although this is overshadowed by TPP), and TTIP will need ratification by Congress and the Senate, which with a popular uprising against free trade seems less and less likely.
* The UK government is in favour of TTIP, so will be looking to sign up to something similar anyway
Democracy
* By any measure the EU is more democratic than the UK, the argument is that Johnny Foreigner gangs up on the UK
* The EU Commission, which proposes laws, is selected by national governments and approved by the parliament.
* The UK Government is appointed by the Prime Minister, who is appointed by 51% of the party with 51% of the seats in parliament who were elected on 36% of the vote.
* The EU commission has no power to pass laws
* The UK government has all the power to pass laws
* EU law gets passed by a parliament elected by the people under a more representitive system than FPTP, requiring representatives of about 51% of the EU to agree. There are no parties, or groups, with anywhere near a majority, no way for party whips to threaten deselection (firing) if the member doesn't vote the right way
* It also gets passed by a council of national leaders (Cameron, Merkel, etc)
* For democracy to function properly, you need an informed population. We don't have that.