This thread has reminded me of a journey my wife and I made from Paddington to St Ives a few years ago.
We had reservations on the IET from Paddington to St Erth in coach J. It was supposed to be a 2x5-car train but there was some disruption on the day and it was replaced by a 9-car train.
Because of the disruption the train was also delayed, and arrived at Paddington 10 minutes after it should have left, by which time there were hundreds of people waiting to board it.
We walked to coach J, and a lot of people boarded before us at our door, which was the rearmost standard-class door of the reformed train. It was only once we were on board that we discovered that all the reservations had been cancelled, every seat was taken, and the aisle was crammed.
After many hours standing, and then sitting separately, we made it to St Erth. Coach J is not platformed so we had to move through the train just to alight at the rearmost platformed door.
The footbridge is at the other end of the platform so we were at the very back of the queue to slowly make our way to the bay platform for the shuttle service to St Ives. We saw the shuttle leaving from the footbridge and had to wait another half an hour.
Our delay repay request was denied on the grounds that the minimum connection time between the two services was met. (We appealed successfully.)
All of that is to say, yes it would be passenger-friendly for seat reservations to be assigned with some consideration of the relevant platform lengths.