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Given a Time Machine, What Would You Tell Your Former Self?

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bspahh

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If you were given a time machine, what would you tell you former self? The time machine only works once, and the message only goes to you.

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Mine would be to read up on the symptoms of a heart attack.


Symptoms of a heart attack can include:
  • chest pain – a feeling of pressure, heaviness, tightness or squeezing across your chest
  • pain in other parts of the body – it can feel as if the pain is spreading from your chest to your arms (usually the left arm, but it can affect both arms), jaw, neck, back and tummy
  • feeling lightheaded or dizzy
  • sweating
  • shortness of breath
  • feeling sick (nausea) or being sick (vomiting)
  • an overwhelming feeling of anxiety (similar to a panic attack)
  • coughing or wheezing
The chest pain is often severe, but some people may only experience minor pain, similar to indigestion.

While the most common symptom is chest pain, symptoms can vary from person to person. Some people may have other symptoms such as shortness of breath, feeling or being sick and back or jaw pain without any chest pain.

For me, it felt like indigestion. I had just run for 10 minutes, and was burping every 5-10 seconds. I would sometimes get indigestion, which went away if I used an over the counter tablet like Windeze.

This time, my left arm felt heavy, and my left hand felt tingly. Those were red flags. With hindsight, I should have called 999 there and then. They would have sent an ambulance. The ambulance would have done an ECG, and as soon as they had seen that, it would have been blue lights on, and straight to hospital.

Instead I walked 20 minutes back home. I tried calling 111, but they only wanted to talk to me if I was in a specific location, not walking. I got back home 5-10 minutes later and called 111 again. After 20 minutes, a GP called back and recommended I get an ECG. It was a Friday evening, so I didn't fancy waiting for an ambulance, so I got an Uber, which came in 10 minutes.

At A&E, I checked in, they measured my blood pressure, triaged me, and took an ECG. Five minutes after that, I had a tap on the shoulder to go through for treatment. I was then the centre of attention. 30 minutes later, I was in the Catheter lab, having an angiogram and a stent. They made an incision near my wrist and passed a wire with the stent up my arm to the coronary artery. The stent opened up one blocked artery.

This was about 2 hours 30 minutes after the heart attack. In that time, some of my heart muscle died. There is enough left that still works adequately, but it won't grow back.

The big risk is if the blood supply to your heart means that it stops beating. The British Heart Foundation say there is a 1 in 10 chance of survival if that happens and you aren't in a hospital. That improves to ~ 1 in 5 if it happens in a hospital.

I now have 10 tablets to take each day.

I've since read a couple of good books.
A Second Act is by an A&E consultant where each chapter is about a patient who recovered after being clinically dead.

Live Forever? A curious scientist's guide to wellness, ageing and death is by a biomedical researcher who goes through the major causes of death (heart disease, cancer, diabetes etc), and looks into the ways to avoid them. It won't be a surprise that there are some common themes: a low fat, low salt, low sugar diet, some exercise, low stress, and no smoking or alcohol.

The diet thing is a bit of a pain, given that fat, salt and sugar make food taste nice. Spices are still allowed though. I do find it easier to stick to a diet, after my heart attack.
 
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Mine might be to tell me there's no need to panic / verbally freeze when you are close to a woman you find attractive.......
 

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Actually buy the Bitcoin that I set the account up for back in 2011...
 

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Apart from the winning Lottery numbers, 'record every single thing you see and do on the railway', because to my lasting regret I have only memories of my travels and sights from 1971 to 1983, and only partial records since 1983.
 

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It's an ultimate existential question, as even the smallest action can alter the path of your life so dramatically that it won't be anything like it is now - the Back to the Future / butterfly effect.

Just take following #3 on this thread and you ain't going to be on the life path you are now or anywhere near it.

So do you want a different life?
 

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I would like to tell (myself to tell) my mum to get checked for cancer earlier, but the problem is I don't know when the right time would have been.

Other than that, it's the bog standard answer of winning lottery numbers or getting my dad to have invested in a particular stock (yes, he would have listened to me when I was 12 if I made a good case for it).
 

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When you see an attractive man you fancy them, you don't envy their body.

There are lots of confusing things about being in the LGBT+ community, but one for me in my youth was certainly that I didn't understand what I was feeling and that led to a fair bit of body dysmorphia and poor self esteem, while when I look back at photos of me in my 20s I actually wasn't bad! :)
 

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I would go back to February 2020 and tell myself to buy a load of shares in a little-known video-conferencing company called Zoom.
 

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To have concentrated more on playing cricket.
My favourite sport to play was football, but my best sport to play was cricket. I honestly believe I could have made it as a professional cricketer. I had a good teacher, my dad. On my shelf is a mounted cricket ball presented to my dad for taking all 10 wickets in an innings for only 20 runs. I was taught the basics at a very early age. But unfortunately football was what I liked best. That’s why I spent 45 years in engineering :)
 

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To actively avoid people who just want to create drama in life where it doesn't exist.
 

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Me, I would tell myself, that it all works out in the end, and not to get so hung up on things that really were never that important.
 

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Looks like the medical profession aren't going to come out of this well.
'Get a second, third, fourth opinion on the "We can't find anything wrong with you so it must be an unknown virus causing you to be ill". It was appendicitis, as they found out over ten years later.'
 

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It's an ultimate existential question, as even the smallest action can alter the path of your life so dramatically that it won't be anything like it is now - the Back to the Future / butterfly effect.

Just take following #3 on this thread and you ain't going to be on the life path you are now or anywhere near it.

So do you want a different life?
I have worked with mathematics and statistics for most of my academic and working career, and I don't share this view of life.

Some things are out of our control, starting with our parents and whether we get conceived in the first place. I don't know Back to the Future, but I read that the plot hangs on that.

I can look back on other events that were out of my control, where I was fortunate not to be in the wrong place at the wrong time, especially the Kings Cross fire and the Hatfield and Potters Bar derailments.

But most of what is being discussed here are when people were in control, and did they make the right decision? Those decisions, big and small, are not random, and my view is that cumulatively they are convergent not divergent. For me this is best summed up by a quote attributed to David Bowie: "it is when we get old that we get to be the person that we always should have been".

With hindsight, I should have called 999 there and then. They would have sent an ambulance. The ambulance would have done an ECG, and as soon as they had seen that, it would have been blue lights on, and straight to hospital.

Instead I walked 20 minutes back home. I tried calling 111, but they only wanted to talk to me if I was in a specific location, not walking. I got back home 5-10 minutes later and called 111 again. After 20 minutes, a GP called back and recommended I get an ECG. It was a Friday evening, so I didn't fancy waiting for an ambulance, so I got an Uber, which came in 10 minutes.
This is the experience that started the discussion. I have had a similar experience, having to walk 20 minutes to get back home. I did dial 999 immediately I got home, and the ambulance arrived in 2 minutes.

In that time, some of my heart muscle died. There is enough left that still works adequately, but it won't grow back.
That was still the result. I consider myself fortunate, because I knew someone who died in similar circumstances. This will sound bizarre, but I also see it as a blessing in disguise. As a result of having a heart that doesn't function properly, there are things that I can no longer do, and some of them were obstacles in the way of me "getting to be the person that I always should have been".

If you were given a time machine, what would you tell you former self?

Although it took me about 60 years to get to be the person I always should have been, I don't think that I'd take the opportunity to tell my former self to do do anything differently. My past life is what it is, and I'm not convinced that a different route would be any better: alternative routes would have had their ups and downs too, and I might still be trying to find my way to the person that I always should have been.
 

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I don't think that I'd take the opportunity to tell my former self to do do anything differently. My past life is what it is, and I'm not convinced that a different route would be any better: alternative routes would have had their ups and downs too, and I might still be trying to find my way to the person that I always should have been.
I don't know about the person I should have been or whether I am now that person, but I am who I am. I might have been different, and at various stages my life might have followed a different track. Would I have been happier? It's impossible to say. Things might have turned out worse. I might tell my younger self to have more self-belief; maybe he would then have overdone it. Similarly, if the question were "Is there one thing in your life you wish you had done differently?" I really don't know because any different choice, even if it seems unimportant, could have led to major alternative outcomes, not necessarily ones I would have preferred.

There's a somewhat different question about what you most regret not having done. We can probably all think of an answer to that. With that one, or the OP's original question, the younger you are the more chance you have to take a different line if similar circumstances show up. By the time you're 85 it's probably better to accept things the way they are.
 

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We are what life makes us, I believe that I'm 68, 69 in October, with a few moderate issues, that are controlled using medication, and I'm living with cancer, again that's in early stages, but manageable, because its being monitored, so how could i tell my younger self that?
I don't think I could,

As a person, I have more sense of self-worth, that's because now, I'm old enough to realise what's important now, is not what was important to me then, As I've aged, so I changed, I've achieved things that i never would have dreamed, I have found what i consider to be if not my calling, something that gives me great pleasure, and a sense of achievement, I don't think my younger self would have believed that I would change as much , as i have,

Post retirement, I've learnt the guitar, written and performed songs, put myself out on stage, bared myself, (not literally) the younger version of me would have been too scared to have even attempted that, let along enjoyed doing it, I listened to people far too long who told me, I would never do it, Parents, siblings, Teachers, and even some friends,
 

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nothing - you have to learn things for yourself and experience things for the first time. You life and character are formed by learning from those mistakes.
 

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Apart from the winning Lottery numbers, 'record every single thing you see and do on the railway', because to my lasting regret I have only memories of my travels and sights from 1971 to 1983, and only partial records since 1983.
A good call, I am definitely in the same boat there.

However what I did discover a few years ago was that several people had been taking numerous photos at exactly the same time and place (Scarborough mainly) where I had been hanging around watching trains, and kindly uploaded 100s of them on Flickr. While they are not exactly what i would have taken they are a very good approximation and I have looked at many of them to transport me back to those days.
 

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Apart from warningd to take more care of heart and teeth I can't think of anything that wouldn't risk detrimental effects.

Any sensible advice would mean being without my current children or grandson. What would the alternative family if any be like?
 

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Take more care of my teeth and don't assume just because that blood in your urine cleared after a day everything's fine (I was later diagnosed with bladder cancer, extremely rare in people my age but there you go)

I'd also tell my younger self just out of university to be less picky about jobs and actually less focussed on a few career possiblities than I was (I experienced long bouts of unemployment and it took years to get something stable, eventually in a non-graduate job anyway). But would I have told my younger self not to go to University? Absolutely not. As an autistic person I feel I have to prove myself, and it kind of helped with that, a lot of people would have written me off as stupid without that piece of paper.

Oh, and you know that stockbroking account that was too difficult to set up at your student address in 2009? Set it up at your parents house or persist, don't give up on that one!
 

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I would have taken a lot more note of what I was being hauled by in the late ‘70s and early 80s when I got back into railways….
 
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