The trouble with waiting until the attachment has been done, is people are liable to become impatient and more likely to force the doors. It is also likely to cause conflict between passengers and staff.
Indeed. There are plenty of reasons why you don’t want to have someone panicking about making a connection and thus pulling a door egress before the attachment is complete. Frankly, the chaos caused by pulling egresses on a train which is halfway through an attachment would be insane. South of the River, you just wouldn’t get away with either the risk or the ensuing fallout if something did happen.
I'm speaking as a passenger, with no operating, or "insider" experience of the railways. I regularly travel on some of the Southern routes that divide/join at Haywards Heath.
I think simplicity is the key. Multiple opening/closing of doors seems unnecessarily complicated to passengers.
I've never seen any serious safety risk. A train coming in to an already occupied platform will be slow anyway, so the start-stop-start-couple won't knock people off their feet. An announcement to say hold on can't do any harm though.
The whole process takes maybe 2-3 minutes at the most, so only marginally more than a normal station stop. I've never seen passengers trying to force doors or be aggressive towards staff because coupling is taking place.
This seems like a storm in a teacup.
All Southern services release doors on both portions before coupling, so that’ll be why you’ll have never seen anyone try to force the doors, although it still occasionally happens even if people are allowed a few moments to alight first.
Releasing the doors on some units after attachments can be fairly complex, too, as not all units are simple beasts, and some (377s/387s especially) take time to configure the door controls, which is only permitted from the “new” leading cab. In exceptional circumstances it can take up to 3-4 minutes just to set up the cab, including door release, if there’s a problem.
There are factors with coupling which do mean some force can be necessary. The amount of force can vary depending on anything from gradient to length of the two portions. I’ve been on countless trains where I’ve not felt anything much, but a few where I’ve nearly gone flying, and that’s with the ability to understand exactly what is about to happen.