Sorry to wade in. But I drive 16x on a daily basis and I thought I'd hand over my thoughts/experiences.
The TSW/TSClassic 16x are far too quick off the mark, but braking is about right. For realistic performance, you should be able to knock 10-20mph (depending on the speed you're doing) off in step 2, back to step 1 and see it in, providing you know the route well enough. Of course, you won't know it properly but you'll know it enough for the game if you drive it there enough. I also have braking zones for good weather where you brake later and leave it in step 2 a lot longer and still stop comfortably.
Acceleration and overall performance- well, here's where it gets fun. Our 165s are more spritely and go a bit better. The difference between a 2/4car 165 and a 3/6 car 166, or a 5car 165/166 is noticeable. I'm not a fitter but I'd wager this is down to the 166's aircon and its tendancy to sap power at every opportunity.
A bad set you'll barely hit 90 all day. I can take sets to Cardiff and never get anywhere near the good 5-10nins you should be sat at 90. Others you'll hit 90 between Yatton and Nailsea, which in Turbo acceleration terms is a quite short distance!
I'd say a good set should do 0-90 in about 4-5minutes, a poor set likely around 7-8. Average it out between 5and7 minutes.
Notch 7 by 10mph or you'll never get anywhere.
0-40 performance is usually fairly good, it's the 40+ speeds where the gears change over you'll notice if it's a sluggish one.
That said, some of the worst you'll know by 10mph you're in for a slog of a trip!