I've sat and followed this thread for a while and as a father of a two year old I've been stirred enough to add my thoughts on this subject and hopefully add some perspective on this discussion.
Firstly, the trains are run for everybody's benefit... Irrespective of the time of day. I try to avoid rush hour where possible, but sometimes that can't be the case. I have a pretty small buggy which is collapsable and make efforts to do so. The sad fact of this is that a lot of the trains on the network nowadays are insufficient for carrying things like buggies. SWT are my local TOC and it is often the luck of the draw as to whether a blue or a white Desiro turn up with the blue ones being good for parents and the white ones being terrible for parents. Remember luggage vans? They were good for stuff like that!!
Secondly, any station, whether it be NR or TFL have ticket barriers that are clearly indicated for people with luggage and buggies, and plenty of other barriers that are for people without additional paraphenalia... and YET... You all still insist on using the wide one and life difficult for those of us struggling with large objects. In a perfect world, the TOC's and TFL will turn people away from the wide gate if they don't fulfil the required criteria. The problem with this is that it would hinder you by ten seconds or so, and that just wouldn't do.
Thirdly, not all of us belong to the 'cult of the child'. Much in the same way that we don't all belong to the 'cult of eating Burger King on the train', the 'cult of leaving your crap everywhere on the train', the 'cult of using your mobile phone in the quiet zone', the 'cult of blocking the doors and delaying everybody else', the 'cult of listening to your mp3 player too loud', the 'cult of putting your work bag on the only seat remaining on the train so that nobody else can use it', and the 'cult of tutting when somebody else wants to get off from the window seat when you are sat in the aisle seat'.
I think what you will find, is that if we all show a little bit of respect and consideration for each other then we will all get along just fine...
And finally, if you were the woman who told me that I wasn't allowed to take my pushchair across the footbridge at London Bridge the other day... You were wrong. No sign = no restriction. I'm perfectly capable of handling my pushchair in a safe and controlled fashion thank you and amazingly even carrying it plus child up and down stairs.
Actually, I've just realised I've gone from trying to have perspective to having a bit of a rant, so here I will redress the balance.
- To the nice man who chatted to me going up the Jubilee line escalator at Waterloo. It was nice meeting you and I hope you enjoy being a grandad.
- To the South West Trains guard who insisted on helping me off with the buggy at Guildford the other week... I thank you.
- To the TFL lady on the tube at Charing Cross the other day who took a shine to my son and then helped me up the stairs with him.. I thank you.
- To the man on the SWT service from Waterloo the other day who moved his bike so that I could put the folded pushchair in it's place... I thank you.
See, it's not all bad
