I was well aware I was not officially entitled to it but that is not to say I think it is necessarily wrong for train crew to offer it up. Are you telling me you would refuse everything in life that was offered to you if you werent specifically entitled to it?
An interesting thread, that despite the naievity/greed (depending on your viewpoint) of the OP has provided a fascinating window into the thought processes of various railway staff members, who appear to think that free or upgraded (and also possibly free) travel is their's to give.
But is it? What do the TOCs these staff work for actually allow? Will these TOCs overlook what could be a disciplinary offence on the part of both grantee and recipient?
Like MrSpock I am a retired safeguarded staff member. My priv boxes and quarter rate travel are immensely valuable to me in retirement, I don't abuse them and never will, always being mindful that to do so could result in their permanent withdrawal.
I often find myself boarding non IC train services at unstaffed stations, and when not travelling on a box have always got both priv cards and means of payment ready to buy a ticket.
It is a continual source of embarrasment to me and my wife, that when I ask for a priv single/return to wherever with the money in my hand, I get told something along the lines of "that's alright mate" and the conductor walks away.
Please, if you are on train staff and are asked for a fare by someone with priv cards obviously prepared to pay, take the money and issue a ticket.