The Chiltern sets are indeed through wired with AAR multi and the DVTs have been modified to include an AAR interface.
As for the 90s, the software limits their top speed to 110. Previous use on the EC has seen them oversped when shoving as this is controlled by the DVT - not good for the loco, or the loco's owner. For permanent use at 125 you would need to re-gear as a minimum, but then you would be compromised on tractive effort. Not likely to happen in my lifetime.
The 89 includes all of the interfaces to work with a Mk4 set at 125, so it's the only option in that respect. It's also the only option for 125mph operation with a Mk3 set, should one be found.
67s are definitely out, too slow and not passed for 125mph before you get into a catelogue of other issues.