Very nice. Maybe it's a different philosophy over there. Distraction of train drivers is taken so seriously that no unauthorised persons are allowed in the cab.
I've had experience of driving both but find the train far more demanding in terms of concentration needed.
Sure, I'll leave you to it, but I'm not sure where the big difference lies. I'd rather drive a train for twelve hours than a car, especially overnight. I certainly do both! Visiting my wife's rellos who live west of Melbourne (bit over 1,000km from where I live) means I leave here at 6pm with a station wagon full of Mrs and kids, and get there at 6am. At least on the train you don't have to steer!
Trains are very different to road traffic, but you have all day, and you get paid by the hour! I start planning signal stops in difficult terrain for miles in advance, it makes concentating very easy. I commonly apply the brakes over a mile away from a red signal on descending 1/33s, and adjust the brakes or dyno to increase or decrease my rate of deceleration. If you have to sit on the edge of your seat, you're doing it wrong.
Do your blokes over there decelerate at the maximum possible rate up to a red stick? If so I can understand why you need to concentrate so hard on it, that sort of driving would give me brown undies. Or expose the crown sheet of a steam engine boiler.
Please don't think I don't take safety or my work seriously. Cabriders can be booted off if they affect either, but I've never even had to make the threat. If they look dodgy, you just tell them they can't come.
Also please don't think I'm being critical of you, I'm more inclined to think that railway management teams have instilled a culture of fear into their crews, partially or mostly to avoid any responsibilities that they don't directly control...ie, they don't trust anyone, least of all industry professionals! The management culture of the modern world stinks.
Mick