I think that most Russians' attitude to western style democracy and economics is one of once bitten, twice shy. They have tried it, and it didn't go well.
It all went wrong under Gorbachev and his policies of glasnost and perestroika. Initially I recall most Russians were keen to Westernise, young Russians in particular. Anything Western was flavour of the month, and the queues for the first McDonalds were incredible.
However, when the brakes were taken off an economy that had always relied on backhanders and corruption to get things done, the corruption also went unbraked. Plus, old and inefficient industries that had survived because of state control of the economy started dropping like flies. As ordinary people started losing their jobs en masse, prices rose to unprecedented levels, and corruption spiralled, disillusionment rapidly set in. Combined with the cuts to the armed forces, that is what led to the coup and the fall of Gorbachev, after which Yeltsin took over.
Yeltsin tried to tread a middle path, but in reality the damage had already been done and Yeltsin was powerless to undo it. He was always looking over his shoulder at the possibility of another coup. It was the backlash against the botched Westernisation, and the loss of Russian prestige with the breakup of the USSR, that led to Putin's rise. He effectively promised to Make Russia Great Again, and that has been his idealogy all along.
The West is not blameless in this. The US in particular pushed hard for these reforms to happen as quickly as possible, and with as little regulation as possible, as they saw big profits to be made from the opening up of this new Russian free market. Putin has therefore been able to blame the West for what happened, further stoking disillusionment with the West.