A sizeable amount of Trump's electorate was the libertarian vote which also votes Democrat. You can protect people's freedoms, say so and do so with more power to act without being authoritarian
Agreed - you can, by increasing state capacity; rights are meaningless without the individual's capacity to take advantage of them and without the state's capacity to protect them. For example, in this country, trans people have the same putative rights to healthcare like the rest of us, but often face discrimination in attempting to access it, or very long waits of many years caused by a lack of resource and institutional transphobia.
Therefore, they, in practice, don't have the same rights even if there isn't a piece of paper on the statute books saying "no you are not allowed". The state hasn't the capacity to allow them to access that right nor protect that right. The right therefore doesn't exist in any real sense.
Trump is diminishing state capacity, not extending it.
running the nation like a business in that sense where workers rights are protected
The USA, famous for workers' rights...
but management at the top can do a lot more.
Management in business can do a heck of a lot less and have less free rein than the governments of large countries. Countries should be fiscally responsible but should not be run like a business. No business runs for the benefit of every person, not even a worker's cooperative.
Forced equalisation comes at the cost of another group.
It does! Do you feel bad when "another group" means you and a cost is imposed on you? How about you take this feeling and apply it to protected minorities? You've already proposed the wholesale removal of state recognition for an entire class of people in this thread, which you'd simply get on with in your dream "benevolent" dictatorship instead of even seeing if democracy delivered it naturally.
When you have 30% of whatever target of new roles that can only be given to minorities, that is completely unfair.
There is likely to be some DEI overreach in this country, but I'd point out there are some circumstances where demographic quotas are good, particularly in the civil service, which has to reflect society in the diversity of its thought process. You probably wouldn't object to DEI so much if there was a quota for "people on the right with 'traditional values'" but there really does not need to be a quota for that - those people are self selecting; Britain is a small-c conservative country, as evidenced by its glacial movement compared to its European cousins on a range of social issues, and the retention of its class system which means people like *you* don't get the voice you feel you deserve.
This govt could save millions on firing all DEI people in the civil service
That would be pretty stupid and this really has all the hallmarks of something a Musk acolyte would say. "Fire everyone" is really just a very reductive way of dealing with a complex issue and the preserve of either someone who hasn't thought very hard about it, or someone who thinks they have the same generational intelligence as a Roman Emperor.
Good parenting, instilling good manners, values and virtues ( like don't steal, clean up after yourself etc) are important
"...eternal overview of child's gender and sexuality and the state acting as a panopticon and reporting on this to me, never questioning that if my child felt the need to conceal from me either of those that it would reveal more about me as a parent than anything else..."
Most children are well parented and most parents are good parents who love their children very much. I'd also add one of the last bastions of the most damaging homophobia in this country was what I call "loving homophobia" - a sincere belief that being gay or lesbian was not in itself bad, but such a fate - and the ensuing unhappiness, loneliness and social ostracision - was not what they would want for their child whom they loved and cared about. The solution to that - and indeed the solution to a group you claim to care about: most people who have some
regretful thoughts about gender transition - is simply to have a more accepting and inclusive society. That LGBTQ+ people feel they can have meaningful relationships, form family groups if they want, can access employment, healthcare and be recognised as full and valued citizens in the same way the state recognises me as one.
I did used to think trans people were self-absorbed and were seeking privileges they were not entitled to, but I've met a few and now have some in my friend group. They are normal, decent people with the same things to offer society as anyone else; they want to work, contribute, pay taxes, find love and happiness. What conservative will say no to these things?
from what I've heard in places of work and school
So no direct experience then.
parents seem to leave their kids to their own devices these days.
That is absolutely untrue; parents now are much less likely to just leave kids to their own devices. I am 38 and my parents let me cycle around town and go 2 miles from home with a friend when I was ten; this just does not happen at the same scale now. Parents are much more present and more prone to "helicoptering" than the other way around.
Parents also have the right to be aware of that their kids are getting up to
Only if they're getting into trouble. If a teenager is trying to access healthcare that they feel their parents would disapprove of, this says so much more about the parents.
If that's what it takes, I'm all for it. I don't believe either it will go too far without huge backlash.
The leopard will absolutely eat your face, as well as everyone else's.