May be a simple solution for some of you is not to purchase a car in the first place!
Clearly 'touch screens' is one of the main bugbears but my car has some features on the driving wheel as well as the option of talking to the nice lady to change some things! However, I have learnt to adapt that if I need to change anything on the touch screen then I wait until I
stop then change what ever.
Now 'Low Profile Tyres' is the funny one though

as they are tend to be fitted to cars which have slightly lower / harder suspension with suitable wheels too. Generally the more mid / upper range of models have that option so your best option is not to choose a car that does not have that suspension, wheels, tyres in the first place! 'Low Profile Tyres' give you a better grip but it is the suspension which dictates the 'ride' qualities.
As regards to other features mentioned, generally you have the option to switch the settings e.g. off / mid option / on, just a case of going into the car's program (usually via the touch screen

) and amending.
The likes of Leather Seats, you generally keep them clean. via hoover and suitable 'leather' cleaner / wipe, then they should be fine. As for heated seats / heated wheel / side mirrors, you only use them a handful of times each year but nice to have in the very occasional cold weather.
One thing I do agree though, is that all cars should have a spare wheel even if it just one of those 'thin' ones, limited to 50mph but at least you are able to carry on to your destination. As for the 'tyre filler foam' you simply do not use it as it is a waste of time and possible additional expense. Within that last 15 months, I have had two new tyres fitted due getting a sharp object on the edge / wall of the tyre and when that happens, you have no choice to replace even the tyres are virtually new, very frustrating but I had insurance to cover that with the policy now having paid for itself! Bonus and lucky!