Exactly the sentiment my parents have. They have both survived serious cancers, but none of us know how much longer they have left. They've moved to be closer to their grandchildren. They want to live and enjoy what life they have left, not merely exist.
My mother in law, who has never been seriously ill, is far more cautious. That's her right and her decision.
People need to be making their own decisions. And I think people have been. The government is certainly providing data that allows people to assess the risk of being out and about and whether they need to take precautions or abstain from going to crowded places for a while.
There's very little justification for not allowing families to get together.
All that will happen at Christmas is people will flit between lots of gatherings of 6 (assuming they comply), which is going to spread it anyway.
Absolutely, we need to start taking ownership of the decision making & risk management as a population, instead of Uncle BoJo and his troop of clowns telling us what we can & cannot do in our own homes.
Most elderly people will be able to see their families - just not all at once.
Judging by the way a lot of people talk about Christmas family gatherings I think there will be an awful lot of “Well if you need to keep the numbers below six I will take the bullet and just have a quiet day in front of the telly (can I just pop round and pick up a tray full of dinner?)”
There is a reason post Christmas is divorce lawyer boom time!
The evidence seems to show that the primary transmission vector is indoor gatherings
As I have said, it should now be up to individuals to make the decisions themselves. If you don't feel confident in having a few people around, then don't. But you, BoJo, Whittey, Ferguson or anyone else is not going to tell my family what we should do within the confines of our own homes. We all know the risks, and they are very low even amongst the elderly, so we'll make up our own minds based on the circumstances at the time. So for example if someone is very ill, we'll minimise risk. But if someone in the family feels confident and wants to socialise then that's what will happen. And I would encourage other families to do the same.
I can't speak for your situation, but like many families mine are spread out geographically and work-wise, and so Christmas becomes one of the few times of year where we cam align to come together, and as such it becomes a very important time to catch up and bond with each other. And the same is true of an awful lot more.
And that's it in a nutshell, more & more people are becoming less & less frightened because the virus isn't causing the apocalyptic results that were originally mooted, no doubt to the severe disappointment of some.