My small supplier does not support smart meters but one of their conditions is the monthly online submission of a meter reading - they send a reminder in case I forget. It is worth doing this to save the money compared to NPower.
Having read the interesting submissions on here I will still say no to a smart meter for the reasons I originally stated - staying in control of my supply (as best I can).
But in reality, going for the killswitch on individual meters won't happen. The effect will be too small.
If a cyber terrorist wants to do real damage, they'll go for the control systems of the transmission and distribution networks. If they get through those we are in big trouble. Thankfully both the government and the network operators are well aware of this especially in the light of the wake up call that recently happened.
When your meters are due for replacement (and they do get replaced because their calibration is only valid for a fixed period of time) you'll get a smart meter whether you want one or not because the meter asset management companies won't keep standard meters in stock once the SMETS2 rollout happens. They'll want one meter to install for electricity and one for gas. That's down to economics. It's cheaper that way. If they do do that, it is safer for you to have it connected. There will be updates sent out regularly over the system to improve security.
Your small supplier will support smart meters very soon and they will be encouraging you to swap.
My recommendation to you. Take the tinfoil hat off. You're far more likely to download a virus that turns your computer into a zombie bot (google botnet) or totally encrypts your data (ransomeware) than having the killswitch activated on a smart meter.
In reality a smart meter will give you more control over your supply as you'll be able to find out where you can save money, which is especially important given energy prices will continue on their upward trend.