"THANK you for saving my life and I'm sorry."
That was the heartfelt apology from teen Ashley Farrar to the conductor of the train he was surfing on.
The 13-year-old admits that the dangerous antics could have cost him his life instead the incident has cost conductor Glenn Watson his livelihood. He was sacked by First TransPennine Express for allowing the train to pull out of Grimsby Town station with Ashley clinging on to the side.
Today, as the youth and his mum spoke to the Telegraph, the firm has given more details of why they felt they had to dismiss Mr Watson, who has accepted the teen's apology. The company said the conductor was dismissed because, despite having a clear view of the youth holding onto the train while it was stationary, he decided to tell the driver to go and not pull the stop button.
Mr Watson has always been adamant that the youth had jumped off the train once, and back on again when it was moving leading him to believe it was safer to leave it running.
Today Ashley, of Grimsby, said whatever the circumstances, he was very sorry for his actions: "It's unfair for the train driver to lose his job because he basically saved my life. I am sorry for what I did and hope this helps get him his job back."
His mum Nicola Hosken, 34, said: "He has saved my son's life and I will be eternally grateful to him. He should not have been sacked. From what I have heard, it is my view that he has acted in the best interests of safety."
She added: "He has children himself so being a parent he knows how much this means. I can't imagine what he has been through."
The mother-of-six said: "Ashley was in with the wrong crowd at the time but he is starting to turn his life around. We all want the conductor to get his job back."
The mother, who is considering launching a petition, said Ashley did not tell her what had happened until days after the incident and said her son has never been subject to an antisocial behaviour order, as was previously suggested.
She said: "He went missing for about a week around that time. He had fallen in with the wrong crowd but is now getting his life back on track."
He attends New Chase House formerly Playsport and enjoys a lot of activities and mentors other teenagers by teaching them on a course called Angling For Change. She said her son, a keen footballer, had learned the enjoyment of fishing from his stepdad, David Willis. He also is keen on motorcycling having attended the Immingham Motorcycle Project.
In response to Ashley's apology, Glenn Watson said: "I accept his apology and I am glad he is remorseful.
"What he said is what I have been saying all along, but the company don't see it like that."
He recalled how he saw the group of youths on the platform as the train pulled in. They were jumping on and off the train when it was stationary, he said. When the conductor remonstrated with the group, he was spat at.
The sacked conductor said: "They started to walk to the exit gate. I thought it was safe to proceed. I got back on the train and signalled to the driver to proceed. It was all over in a matter of seconds. I deemed it safe for him to jump off of his own accord."
He added: "I hope he has learned his lesson and does not do any messing about with his mates again. They won't realise the trouble they have caused."
He said: "If I had applied the emergency brakes it would have thrown him."
The incident has led to industrial action over a number of days by the RMT Union, and they are planning a march in Cleethorpes.
But TransPennine Express says there have been inaccurate reports of what happened and it had been clear that Glenn had contravened his training and informed the driver to set off while the youth was still in contact with the train.
Nick Donovan, managing director, said: "Our position is that the conductor's actions were in clear and direct contravention to his training and also in breach of the Health and Safety at Work Act.
"As a consequence, he was dismissed following a full investigation and appropriate disciplinary process.
"I would like to stress in the strongest possible terms that the safety of all users of the railway, be they customers, staff, visitors or trespassers, is of paramount importance to our business, and all our staff must adhere to the mandatory, comprehensive and ongoing safety training they receive.
"While the news of the industrial action is clearly disappointing, I would like to assure our customers that we intend to operate all services between Sheffield and Cleethorpes as planned."