You're correct, one complaint was that the person selling the ticket didn't challenge her. I refer you to post #3.
That's right, but frequently another complaint that will follow in these letters if sold a child-rate ticket when they asked for one is
'This lone male member of staff demanded to know my young and vulnerable daughter's age, this is inappropriate, she 'felt threatened', was 'brought to tears' or similar whether there is any substance to it or not.
Too frequently this results in some Customer Relations staff doing exactly what the writer intended and acting on the allegation by impulse in order to avoid further correspondence in the belief that this might result in bad publicity rather than ensure that someone conducts a proper investigation.
If this happens a few times a member of staff may well feel that it isn't worth the hassle of checking and will just issue the ticket requested. Probably saying to themselves. 'Well, it is the purchaser's responsibility to ensure that they buy the right ticket after all'.
I am not condoning this by either front line staff, or backroom CR staff either, although I can see how the fear of unjustified, but high numbers of complaints can drive the reaction
If the young person before you looks older than 16 and asks for or presents a child-rate ticket, politely check their age.
As an illustration of how difficult dealing with this can be, around 32 years ago I was working on a large & busy booking office window when a young man well over 6ft tall asked the clerk on the next window for a 'half to Leicester'.
The clerk said 'How old are you?' to which the youth replied '15 mate' and without further prompting showed ID confirming this, he was obviously used to being asked and well prepared. My colleague, thinking he was being humorous, said 'Christ, I hope you're not going to grow up!' The lad took it in good part, laughed and having got his ticket went off happily to catch his train.
A few days later a written complaint was received, not from the lad, not from his parents, but from an entirely uninvolved observer who had been in the next queue and had overheard the exchange. Rightly or wrongly the content of this letter was disregarded...........what do you think would happen in that situation today?
Schools can't practically teach everything a human needs to know - parents/carers have to take a little responsibilty.
You're absolutely right, but I'd change just one word to say that it is a natural requirement of good parenting to take a
lot of responsibility and therein lies the rub.
In my experience far too many parents will not shrink from assuming responsibility to write and complain, demanding 'apology' or 'compensation for the hurt and anguish caused', or that the staff are disciplined, or sacked as in a letter that I received this week, but are more than happy to pass responsibility for helping their children to avoid the problem in the first place to someone else.