I don't know of anyone who thinks abortion is a "alright" for anyone (other than those who make fat profits out of it). Its legal but, leaving any moral considerations aside, unpleasant with long lasting effects in many cases; there are very few people who come out of the other side wholly unaffected. A teenager going through that doubly so.
Getting a doctor to chop your leg off if it has gangrene might be the appropriate remedy; but no one would disagree that it is very sad and regrettable and it would be better for all concerned if your leg hadn't got infected and had to get chopped off in the first place; especially if the cause of infection was something that might have been avoided if education on the matter had encouraged people, especially teenagers, to avoid the cause of infection rather than "don't worry, enjoy yourself and if you do get infected you can chop your leg off and it won't make any difference to you, no really"
Safe sex is a myth. For example, a condom has 98% reliability, so 1 in 50 chance of it not working. If a person has sex 100 times a year then on two of those occasions a pregnacy will result if the woman is fertile at the time. A woman is fertile roughly 3 days a month so 10% of the time. So overall if you use a condom twice a week you are guaranteed statistically to get someone pregnant within 5 years - and that is if you use the thing properly, which many teenagers probably won't!
If railway signalling had the reliability of any contraceptive there would be daily carnage. THAT is what sex education should be teaching and THAT is why sex education over the last 50 years has been disastrous.
are you personally/morally opposed to abortion ?
If so that is a fully acceptable opinion to have - not one I agree with but I respect your right to hold that opinion and understand how you could arrive at that conclusion .
What I cant however respect is getting facts and opinion conflated .
How do you know that majority of people who have an abortion have long lasting effects . How do you know these effects are harsher on teenagers having them ?
Your analogy of having a gangrened leg chopped off is not exactly appropriate because if you dont have your leg chopped off it poses a risk to you life if you wish to carry on living you really dont have a choice .
However having an abortion , neither decision you make has a direct impact on your continued existence , you actually have a real choice in what you do .people have multiple abortions and continue on with their life normally .
Having your leg cut off is going to impact upon your life in a very real and direct way .
I agree that better education aimed at preventing teenagers getting pregnant is much better in the first place ,
And I also agree with what you are saying about the failure rate of condoms , I was always dubious when relying on them and was much more comfortable when using them as an additional method to double up rather than soley relying on them . Now I rely on something much more reliable than condoms .
I would much rather teenagers where advised to double up to prevent the risk of accidental pregnancy . However this has nothing to do with the above comments about telling them to enjoy themselves irrelevant of the consequences because if they are using condoms but they are failing they have done exactly what the conventional wisdom is
When I did sex ed we where told the failure rate of the various methods out there and what that meant , however I like many others would hedge my bets on a 1 in 5 years chance . that to me is especially good odds .