........I can't see where this vibe of staff v passenger exists on here as I can't really see it, I just constantly hear people go on about it. What is very obvious on this forum at present though is this constant anti staff/union trolling from the same few posters who clearly have nothing useful or interesting to say and are here for one reason only...to wind up staff.
I don't think there is a staff v passengers vibe, as such, but what does tend to happen, on internet forum discussions and real ones, is that there tends to be a divide which becomes visible, with people of one opinion on one side, and people with another opinion on the other. That's all well and good, in fact I think it's healthy for there to be different sides to the argument, and it would be boring and predictable if it was anything else. The problems tend to arise when those arguments stray into the territory of bickering, personal insults, handbagging, etc.
I personally have no problem with hearing a point of view that I don't agree with. It takes all sorts, as they say. But when things get personal, the topic gets derailed, things get heated, and people who were doing ok end up putting themselves in the wrong, not because of what they say, but how they say it, and the side arguments that are sometimes allowed to develop.
I am aware of the original definition of a troll, but I'm also aware that the definition seems to have changed slightly in recent years. Nowadays, the word troll seems be a label which is applied to someone who has a different viewpoint. As such, the word has far less validity than it once did.
When I was 25, I used to actually care very deeply about what other people thought, but more recently, I've ended up really not worrying about things like this anywhere near as much. I'll admit that once in a while, I catch myself being mildly bothered about whether other people agree with me or not, but then I remember that they will either agree, or they won't, and there's nothing I can do about it.
The philosophical approach works for me, and the basics of it are this. If you find yourself becoming emotionally attached to the question of whether someone has a different view to your own, sit down with a cup of tea, a beer, or whatever works for you, and remind yourself that it takes all sorts, and that it really doesn't matter how many other people agree with you. You can't control the uncontrollable. In terms of internet discussions, it means you can't win everyone round to your way of thinking, but if you try, you waste valuable emotional energy trying. Let them have their opinions, they'll have them anyway. The sun's still going to rise tomorrow regardless.