Suction effect is definitly real, not just with trains but with any large moving object. It's strength does tend to be over-exagerated though, the ability to send lightweight bits of paper blowing around and the ability to suck a person off a platform are totally different, afterall their is a fair difference in weight. The shockwave from the front of the train passing is infact a lot stronger, but this will push anything away from the train not towards it and even then it's unlikely to be strong enough to push someone over. The effects also vary depending on the aerodynamics of the particular object, so something with a slab rear will have stronger suction than a streamlined rear (a good example is how powerful the effect from a double decker bus can be even at very low speeds by train standards). Even between similar designed trains the effects can be noticably different, a HST has less shockwave and suction than a Meridien, showing that over 30 years ago they got the aerodynamics spot on. I suppose this is likely down to a change from railway engineering (brick aerodynamics) to aeronautical engineering (highly efficient aerodynamics) to automotive (style first, engineering second).