I guess I have to look at things from the perspective of which is more likely going to get me prosecuted.
Possibility 1 - They might have forgotten about it, but if I remind them, I think the most likely worst possible outcome is I have to pay for the total price of the fares that I short fared. Southeastern almost always settle out of court for those that cooperate. If I don't remind them, they forget and they can't take action after 6 months. Which is around 3 months away. I think it's pretty unlikely they forgot though
Possibility 2 - Their letter got lost in the mail or they assumed I didn't respond to their initial letter. They are going foward to prosecute me. This is a much more stressful affair and the stakes are much higher and there is a higher likelihood here that I will actually be brought to court. Time is much more constrained here and I'd need to move quick. The likely outcome is they will settle out of court and I will have to pay the total price of all the journeys that I have short fared. I'd potentially have to look into getting a solicitor if they still proceed with court.
So I think following up with them is likely the most sensible option all things considered
You've obviously weighed it up
I was going to say that
- you can work out what they are likely to want from you as you know the fares you have evaded and the likely admin fee. You can calculate a reasonable estimate of that sum if you do anything now to trigger them from not forgetting about you
- It's worth bearing in mind if you did get prosecuted there is a way to wind back the clock (using the Statutory Deceleration process) - but you can find cases on here where people have had to do that for various reasons - legit reasons - and you can see it's rather a faff and does not come without stress for some people. You can get a sense of if that is what you want to spend your time and effort on because you will know how busy you are etc
If you
don't want to remind them at this stage (and I don't think this is what you are minded to do) -
I suspect the main issue you have is the period of time you say you are expecting to be away for soon (12 days) - options ref that would be:
- is there a trusted person who could check your post every day, open it and send you scanned copies so you could deal with it whilst away, if it happened
or
- sort out a Royal Mail redirect for the period you are away to a trusted person who could do the above - a royal mail redirects itself involves a cost, and you can look up their website for info - be aware you need to set these up a few days before you want it to commence so factor in time for that (and if you want to test it after its started you can post a letter to yourself and see if it turns up at the redirect address)
or as you have identified, you could e-mail SE Trains now to see what may yet have happened, on the basis that your assessment of the situation is they are unlikely to forget about you anyway....