sickwithstress
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I was stopped this morning by 2 men inside a London train station. one showed me a badge but to be honest, I can't even remember what the badge looked like. they asked me if I could show them my train ticket which I did. They then asked me where I had boarded the train. I stupidly lied to them and told them that I had gotten on at a station within zone 3 (which is what my ticket is valid for). They told me that I had actually boarded the train at a much earlier station (Higham) and proceeded to caution me.
They spent the next hour asking me to confirm that I had made a return journey from Higham to London for the past 7 days. They cautioned me at the start of questioning me about each new day. I admitted to travelling from Higham to London but that I did not travel back to Higham every day, because I don't. They asked me questions about when I had to pay a penalty fare 2 months ago - I was honest and said that I genuinely did not recall. At the end of the questioning, they asked me to sign, date and time the notebook that they were taking all the notes on. Basically, they wrote down the questions they asked me and my replies.
The two men were polite and pleasant but I was so panicky and stressed that I ended up in tears on a couple of occasions. I've been told that I will be contacted either by phone or letter and that I should not ignore the communication. I've asked if I was going to have to go to court and get a criminal record but they couldn't tell me.
They did advise that even though I don't always use the return leg of my ticket, I should buy a ticket to cover the whole journey to save myself from being caught again.
They also told me that they were supposed to ask me questions about my train travel all the way back to March 2013 which was when I apparently started to buy my ticket but they weren't going to as I was already an hour late to work. They even apologised for making the start of my work day so horrible so I can't say they weren't being pleasant but I'm stressing out as to what is likely to happen to me.
I'm aware that I what I did was wrong and very stupid but I'm terrified at the thought of having to go to court and be prosecuted with potentially a criminal record. I haven't had permanent work for 2.5 years now and do contract work to pay the bills. If I get a criminal record, that's my hopes of my current contract role becoming permanent down the toilet. My partner has recently lost his job and our finances are in such a state as a result of the lack of work by both of us that I'm actually in debt management.
I know I'm can't do anything (or maybe I can?) until I receive a letter or phone call but any and all advice is appreciated. I'm so stressed out at the moment that I'm seriously contemplating going back to my counsellor as I can feel my mental health going downhill again
They spent the next hour asking me to confirm that I had made a return journey from Higham to London for the past 7 days. They cautioned me at the start of questioning me about each new day. I admitted to travelling from Higham to London but that I did not travel back to Higham every day, because I don't. They asked me questions about when I had to pay a penalty fare 2 months ago - I was honest and said that I genuinely did not recall. At the end of the questioning, they asked me to sign, date and time the notebook that they were taking all the notes on. Basically, they wrote down the questions they asked me and my replies.
The two men were polite and pleasant but I was so panicky and stressed that I ended up in tears on a couple of occasions. I've been told that I will be contacted either by phone or letter and that I should not ignore the communication. I've asked if I was going to have to go to court and get a criminal record but they couldn't tell me.
They did advise that even though I don't always use the return leg of my ticket, I should buy a ticket to cover the whole journey to save myself from being caught again.
They also told me that they were supposed to ask me questions about my train travel all the way back to March 2013 which was when I apparently started to buy my ticket but they weren't going to as I was already an hour late to work. They even apologised for making the start of my work day so horrible so I can't say they weren't being pleasant but I'm stressing out as to what is likely to happen to me.
I'm aware that I what I did was wrong and very stupid but I'm terrified at the thought of having to go to court and be prosecuted with potentially a criminal record. I haven't had permanent work for 2.5 years now and do contract work to pay the bills. If I get a criminal record, that's my hopes of my current contract role becoming permanent down the toilet. My partner has recently lost his job and our finances are in such a state as a result of the lack of work by both of us that I'm actually in debt management.
I know I'm can't do anything (or maybe I can?) until I receive a letter or phone call but any and all advice is appreciated. I'm so stressed out at the moment that I'm seriously contemplating going back to my counsellor as I can feel my mental health going downhill again