10/10 = 1; 5/5=1; 2/2=1; 1/1=1. Why isn't 0/0 = 1?
I would say that 0/0 is undefined because it can literally be anything.
The way I think of it is this: In mathematics, when you encounter 0/0 in a problem, the situation is usually more subtle. In practice, what you usually mean is that you have some quantity x and you're dividing by some other quantity y, and it happens that in your problem, both x and y become extremely small (in mathematical parlance: When x and y both approach zero). And you want to know what happens to x/y when they become very small. So when you say 0/0 what you actually mean is limit (as x approaches 0, and y approaches 0) of x/y. There's probably some everyday example of this to make that clear but I can't think of one offhand, so I'll give a couple of mathematical examples instead:
1. Suppose y is always twice x. So y=2x, and lim (x, y->0) x/y = x/2x = 1/2. So in this case, 0/0 turns out to be 0.5.
2. Suppose x is always y squared. So lim (x, y->0) x/y = (y^2)/y = y. Since we've said that y is approaching zero, the answer is zero. So in this case, 0/0 turns out to be zero.
3. Suppose x is always sin (y). The x/y = sin(y)/y. And as y becomes small, sin y becomes almost the same as y, so x/y = y/y = 1. So in this case, 0/0 turns out to be 1.
4. The example you gave above of saying 10/10 then 5/5 then 2/2 then 1/1 is basically doing the same thing: Letting two numbers become smaller and smaller. But you're doing it for x = y, therefore x/y = 1, which is why you came to the conclusion that 0/0 = 1.
Even if you can't follow all the mathematical details of the last few sentences, you may be able to see where this is heading: I set up more and more examples that will make 0/0 equal whatever I want it to equal. You want 0/0 to equal 6? I can set up an example to do that. You want 0/0 to equal pi squared/sqrt(2)? I can set up an example to make 0/0 equal that as well.
That's why we say that 0/0 is undefined: Because there's no one right answer: Until you give more information about the actual problem you're trying to solve, you could make it equal whatever you want!