I'm pretty sure solder is not used. The telephone wire to my house goes through trees and is always breaking (every couple of years anyway) and I've never seen them soldering. Connections are twisted together and linemen are skilled at doing secure twists.
While twisting together gives reasonable mechanical strength, it isn't particularly good electrically. Do you have broadband coming through that wire?
I remembered that I have two old text books on the subject. A Manual of Telephony by Preece and Stubbs, and Railway Signalling and Telephony Installation and Maintenance (no author named). Both say that joints need to be both twisted AND soldered. "It is better for a badly soldered joint to pull apart". They also say that you shouldn't joint mid span.
However, both books are talking about circuits on pole routes that ran for mile upon mile, and on which electrical noise could soon become a problem. For a domestic telephone, where you probably have just a single span from a terminal pole to your home, it may not be such an issue.
I have certainly seen an old instructional film where they were using a solder pot which was heated on a small brazier thing on the ground, and then pulled up by rope. I can recall the Mox irons mentioned by the last poster, used by technicians. They have a substantially sized bit, as the conductors can dissipate the heat quickly.
The first mentioned book is an incredible book, with 31 chapters on just about everything you could think on telephony. Including a whole chapter of about 40 pages on pole route construction. But the list of other text books available is slightly mind blowing: the alkali makers handbook, agricultural engineering in India, Boyd on coal pits, illustrated dissections, screw and screw making, sewage treatment, submarine mining, the list just goes on and on for page after page. And more text books on dynamos than you could shake a stick at.
The second mentioned book also has a whole chapter on pole routes, fortunately more concise. It mentions the following considerations when planning a pole route:
the route should preferably be on the inside of curves, so that if a wire becomes detached, it will be pulled away from the line
the route should be as straight as possible
avoid sudden changes in horizontal level
avoid changes in ground level which would need long poles
average distance between poles 65 yards, less on curves, max 70 yards
spacing between poles to be as uniform as possible, especially at transpositions
soil conditions (eg some soil types give little support when waterlogged)
situations where a pole might slip
maximum shelter from the prevailing wind
A transposition is where they change the relative positions of the various circuits on the arms. So the inner swaps with the outer, or the circuits on the left side swap with those on the right side, and so on. For much the same reason as the cores in a cable are usually twisted, to reduce electrical interference.