Billions spent on Crossrail, Thameslink, new tube lines in the past but never a NW/SE direct link!! Clearly I wouldn't fly MAN/LHR to get to the south coast, although I have (and consider it in the future) used MAN/SOU to get to Isle of Wight, Bournemouth etc simply because the cross country trains are so slow, expensive and cramped. Could go via London I suppose, but this is speculative discussion so I speculate we need better cross-country trains to take people (like me) away from airplanes!!
HS4Air would solve all your connectability problems